FMF: Decide
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How many people do you know who say ‘I’m not good at making decisions!’?
Perhaps you would say that yourself.
I know that I often do.
So I was pondering why.
But really it is obvious.
If I have to make a decision, it is usually between a range of options or choices and to choose one, often necessitates that I cannot choose the other.
If I decide to go here, I cannot also go there – not at the same time anyway – and so I decide on one thing whilst therefore having to forego another.
It is a sacrifice.
It is a risk.
What if I make the wrong choice? What if I make an unwise decision and regret it?
What if I decide something and end up regretting it for the rest of my life?
I know I’m not the only one who asks these questions, because to a degree, all decisions involve this element of risk.
I might get it wrong.
Of course, mostly I don’t know what right or wrong looks like for many decisions, because results often only become visible later, in the future – maybe when it is too late.
I may decide to buy X and then I don’t like it.
Or I decide to take a job and months later have to relocate and miss my friends and family.
Or I decide to marry this person and then realise that s/he was not the person I believed them to be!
People make decisions that take them higher up the career ladder only to discover many miserable years later that the ladder was up against the wrong wall.
But a friend of mine says there is no ‘wrong’ choice.
Maybe she is right.
Maybe it is how we decide to respond to the challenges before us – no matter what they are – that is the decision that makes life fulfilling and worthwhile?
I have made one decision that I have never regretted, though at times I have felt the pain of some of the sacrifices that my decision has necessitated.
Deciding to be a follower of Jesus has transformed my life from an existence to truly living.
As the song goes: ‘I have decided to follow Jesus, no turning back, no turning back…’
The truth is as Peter, the follower of Jesus says, ‘Where else should we go? You have the words of eternal life!’
Have you decided to follow Jesus? You won’t regret it!
But now I will have to decide which image to use for this blog and I will probably do what I often do – I will choose 2 images!!